When it comes to Judge Judy, her career has never been stronger, but behind the scenes, things aren't so smooth. At 74 years old, she's still going strong, telling In Touch, "You go until you stop!" And that relentless drive has taken a toll on her marriage to Jerry Sheindlin, her husband of decades.

Let's break it down. Judy, the powerhouse behind the iconic Judge Judy show, just inked a deal with CBS that extends her reign through the 2020–2021 season. The contract? A cool $50 million per year. That means more time in the spotlight for her, but also more time away from Jerry, the man she first married in 1977, divorced in 1990, and then remarried in 1991. It's a complicated history, to say the least.

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Judy and Jerry in 2012.

Here's the reality: Judge Judy's demanding schedule isn't just a job; it's a way of life. And that pace has left Jerry, who turns 84 this fall, struggling to keep up. Imagine trying to match the energy of someone who's as unstoppable as a freight train. A close source revealed, "It's like Judy is a high-speed train and Jerry’s been left at the station. Judy is a force of nature in her career, and Jerry just can’t keep up."

The Ghost of the Past: Jerry's Affair Still Haunts Their Marriage

Now, let's talk about the elephant in the room. Back in 2002, Jerry's affair with Kary Farrell, a woman 25 years his junior, left a lasting scar on their relationship. Even after 15 years, the betrayal still lingers. Another insider shared, "It’s been over a decade, but I don’t think Judy ever fully forgave Jerry. She practically had his bags packed and ready to go. That betrayal created a crack in their marriage that has never fully healed." It's a heavy burden to carry, especially when you're trying to move forward.

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Putting Herself First: Judy’s Decisive Stance on Her Future

But here's the kicker: Judy's putting herself and her career first, no matter the cost. "Her marriage is at a critical point," a source explained. "For Judy, it’s all about ‘my way or the highway.’ She’s confident, determined, and if she sees her marriage heading south, she won’t hesitate to end it." A longtime friend added, "Judy and Jerry have shared some amazing moments, especially with their kids getting married and welcoming grandchildren. But even those memories might not be enough to save their marriage." Here's hoping they can find a way to work through it all.